may interpret the message as:
- Paying for admission
- Being charged for dinner
- Having their attendance assigned a monetary value
This can shift attention away from the emotional meaning of the wedding itself.
3. Guests May Already Be Spending Money to Attend
Destination weddings and formal events can already cost guests hundreds or even thousands of dollars in travel and preparation expenses.
Etiquette experts often note that couples should appreciate their guests’ attendance, particularly when those guests make significant financial and personal sacrifices to be there.
